How Bad Do You Want It?

I had breakfast with a friend recently who wanted to discuss personal branding. They felt that if they determined what their brand was or could be, it would change everything. But the truth is the real problem wasn’t necessarily their personal brand but their passion.

Ed Roach

Right of the top we put cost on table. “How much might this cost me Ed?” they asked. I just as quickly threw $5,000. at them, knowing the reaction – “5 grand, whoa that’s way to much.”

Think so?

Here’s the thing, 5 grand was not the issue. $100 might be too much, who knows. The issue here is passion. How bad do they want it. I know that they just went out the week before and dropped 5 grand on a flat screen TV. It didn’t take much too thought either, as a matter of fact they went out “just to look” and came home with the baby.

I asked them at this point – “How much is your personal grow worth to you?” and of course they said – “A lot”, this is where I jumped it an retorted – “Obviously not as much as a big screen TV.” That last comment was just for fun. The truth is they were passionate about their entertainment, not so passionate for personal growth.

At this point in the conversation it got pretty SELF-analytical. My friend wanted to know what might be wrong with them, that they just can’t get their act together as far as their personal growth aka personal brand. My opinion was there is nothing “wrong” with them, they simply didn’t want it bad enough. They love talking about it, they loved planning it, but they don’t really want it, or they would do it. They replied ” no way, of course I want it.” “If that is the case,” I asked, “why is it that for the last few minutes you told me several reason why you CAN’T do it instead of why you CAN?” You can’t find the time to work out in a gym because there is no passion to work out, BUT if your doctor say’s you will die if you don’t, then guess what, your passion to live opens that gym door.

YOU DON’T WANT IT BAD ENOUGH, YOU DON’T HAVE THE PASSION.

Not having the passion to improve your brand, personal or corporate is not really a bad thing but a personal determination of goals. What do you want out of your personal and corporate life? What is your overall definition of success? If you are passionate about a goal, then money is not so much of an issue. What is more important in your life, professional growth or the big screen TV? There is no right or wrong answer to this. It is what is important to you right now at this point in time.

The one thing you have to come to gips with is the truth. Don’t lie to yourself about where your passion lies. If you truly want to grasp greater things then you have to come to grips with your own personal demons and ignite your passion to obtain it. Stop talking about it and DO IT! If the big screen TV is where it’s at right now, then embrace it and enjoy the sucker with everyone you love.

Passion is why we do the things that are truly important to us. To say you are a procrastinator is just a crutch to not have to come to terms with the fact that there is no passion in doing tasks set out in front of you. Find out what motivates your passion and embrace it. If you feed your passions with positive energy, you will do it. Even if you fail in the attempt, the approach is re-directed but the passion doesn’t die, as a matter of fact it is stronger.

Passion feeds on our efforts, just as little effort starves passion. How bad do you want it?

Ed Roach

For more than 30 years, I have worked with hundreds of successful small businesses by helping them develop unique brand positioning strategies that differentiates them from their competition. I appreciate working with companies who see the value of going beyond mere slogans and have a desire to sell from compelling positions. I consult predominantly with businesses facilitating my proprietary branding process. This branding process effectively focuses a company's brand delivering a positioning strategy that can be taken to their marketplace.

I have international speaking experience and am the author of "101 Branding Tips," Practical advice for your brand that you can use today. I'm also a "expert panellist" with Bob Proctor (from The Secret)'s Matrixx Events in Toronto.

I have been interviewed in all media and I also blog extensively and uses the digital realm on the web to connect and promote my services world-wide.

I have international speaking experience including a recent event in Prague, in the Czech Republic and is the author of "101 Branding Tips," Practical advice for your brand that you can use today, the book is available on Amazon.com and the Amazon Kindle store.

My clients are from Canada, The United States, Ukraine, India, United Arab Emirates and Tanzania.

I recently facilitated a workshop in San Diego aimed at teaching Graphic Design companies how to build brands for their customers.

Comments

  1. Ed,

    This post is great. I can personally vouch that saying you want it and actually wanting it are 2 completely different things. It took me 2 years to realize that I was all too happy to spend money on trivial materials instead of investing in my personal brand. I can attest that once I was smacked in the face by a few peers and got my act together (put money into marketing instead of the new car I wanted), I’ve seen bigger gains.

    Now, I wonder what I was thinking in the first place. If only I would have woken up years ago, the new car wouldn’t even be a thought.

    I don’t know who said it originally “entrepreneurs do today what most will not, to have tomorrow what most can not.”

    You want that flat screen this week, or do you want your personal home theater in 5 years?

  2. Josh,

    If only we were all smacked in the head years sooner, where would we be today, eh? I guess we really weren’t ready to hear the message yet. I guess to answer my headline, some would have to admit to themselves – not yet. When you’re ready for that smack in the head, then you will address business prioriites.

    Love the quote by the way.

    Ed

  3. nesh thompson says:

    Hi Ed,

    fantastic post. This is a problem in all solution based sales. The prospect is invariably interested in one thing “cost” and if you are pushed (which you more often than not are) to give an initial quote, then that person is flabbergasted at spending $5000, no matter that by spending that $5000 you will increase his earnings x% of this initial cost.

    I very much doubt that his television will provide those returns, but then most often the initial tussle with a client is over the value proposition. Those who don’t see the value, as you say don’t want it hard enough.

  4. When all they see is the number, then the passion is missing. They’re not losing any sleep over it yet. I think it is more than the value proposition in this example anyway. It is more personal priorities and an understanding of what you truly want in life and when you are prepared to grasp it.

  5. Lipton of Starfeeder says:

    “I don’t know who said it originally “entrepreneurs do today what most will not, to have tomorrow what most can not.””

    My God that almost brought tears to my eyes… ok not tears tears, but you know the twinkle of passion 🙂

    YES I agree with that quote 110%!!! ever since trying the whole giving up the 9-5 to pursue a business(and having it fail, someone elses idea) and now back in a 9-5 and working on another business model(my own idea) every last sec I’m thinking about it, wanting it!

    Ok I just rambled, but had to comment/reply